If you’re the shy and please-don’t-look-at-me type, then the idea of standing up in front of everyone and declaring your undying love to each other might feel less like a romantic gesture and more like a public speaking nightmare

But just because PDAs aren’t your thing, doesn’t mean you should miss out on sharing those deeply personal words with the one person who truly needs to hear them.

Enter the private vow reading done before (or after) your main ceremony.

This rising trend is all about carving out a quiet moment, away from the pressure of an audience, to share your promises. This is your chance to truly connect without the nerves, the noise, or the need to perform. Just you, your partner, and the words you’ve poured your heart into.

And if you want to capture the moment, bring along your photographer or videographer – but only if it feels right. The beauty of this approach is that it’s all about what feels best for you.