How to Create the Ultimate Alternative Wedding Playlist

Twigs Branch Photography

July 30, 2025

More often than not, weddings are much more than a quiet evening event with a little dinner and music. They’re an all-day, outright celebration of lives intertwining – and music is the symphony that elevates every moment. So what better way to mark the occasion than to creatively compose the soundtrack for your entire day – just as if you were soundtracking the movie of your life.

Here’s an outline of what your day could look like. Use it as inspiration to create a day that feels authentically you!

Ceremony: Soulfully Stripped Back

Set the tone right from the start. As the guests arrive, invite them into your world with a soundtrack that immerses them in the atmosphere of the day ahead. The best music style for this moment? A stripped-back set or playlist.

Instrumental and acoustic versions of all your favourite indie tracks or emo anthems turn those monumental songs into something special and moving. You can even mix moods through this important part of your day: start with a sentimental aisle walk, transitioning to a moody and romantic atmosphere for the vow and ring exchange, or build the energy slowly from the first step to the final exit. If you’re considering live music, a pianist or solo guitarist brings a softness to the songs that adds a unique ambience.

Drinks Reception: Indie Folk with a Twist

Lift the vibe after the sentimental ceremony to get guests in the mood for mingling. Typically, a relaxed, feel-good music choice will set the right tone – think a Mumford or folk-style band covering indie and alternative rock tracks. Live music options are plentiful here, including a twist on the unexpected with Roaming Bands. These acts play unplugged while weaving through the party, bringing about a truly interactive and immersive atmosphere to soundtrack your day. Whether you’re opting for a playlist or live music, the right repertoire here will engage your guests for the day ahead, from sunshine-filled outdoor settings to picture-perfect indoor venues.

Dinner Set: Jazzed Up & Laid Back

This time of day can be tricky to get right. The music here needs to curate a welcoming ambience without being overwhelming or stifling conversation. For a winning live music soundtrack that strays from the beaten path, consider a stylish jazz trio or saxophonist. Their smooth tones on contemporary covers create a warm backdrop for all the best conversations – think the timeless ambience of speakeasies and deco ballrooms.

Alternatively, you could ask your evening band if they’ll play an additional set during the day (usually performed in a Live Lounge style). And if you’re really enjoying soundtracking your wedding – whether through playlists or repertoires – you could even include acoustic covers of songs you know will be played later on the dance floor, as a little nod to the evening event.

First Dance: Rule Breakers Welcome

This one is all about you. Why not surprise your guests with something totally unexpected but authentically you? Don’t be afraid to surprise the room! Show them your true self. Invite them to experience something truly special and set the tone for the party to come.

Most couples opt for live music in the evenings, and bands offer to learn a special request song ahead of your big day – why not make that your first dance? You could go romantic, passionate, moody, or all-out theatrical. Perhaps it’s a song that reminds you of an early moment in your relationship, or the song you always riff to each other at home. If you really want to make it unique, consider introducing the song with what it means to you before your dance.

The Party: Your Headliner Moment

Let’s get this party started! The best wedding parties are those all-out, high-energy evenings that unleash non-stop thrills and create memories that last a lifetime. The perfect genre? Pop Punk all the way. This style brings all the energy with alt-rock bangers that are always multi-generational crowd-pleasers – and everyone wants a packed dance floor on their wedding day. As you search for your perfect band to bring this soundtrack to life, check repertoires for the traditional alt-rock mixed with current indie dance floor-fillers. 

Want to Keep the Party Going?

If you’re all-in for soundtracking your day, you could consider a band’s Upgrades & Extras for add-ons like Manned DJ Services, where a member of the band DJs before, between, and after live sets, keeping the party going through the whole evening. Or, take a look at additional DJ & Sax acts which bring a real after-party energy for that final run into the late night or early hours.

From the aisle to the after-party, inviting friends and family to experience music in your own way can be deeply personal and build memories to last a lifetime. Soundtracking your day with music that feels authentic to you will elevate your wedding into a celebration you truly deserve.

About the Author

Florentyna Martin is Content Manager for Tailored Entertainment. She loves working with creatives, and is always writing, reading, and ready with a recommendation.

Suppliers