You’ll know when I’m really excited about blogging a wedding because I’ll sneak peek a photo on facebook and twitter as soon as it hits my inbox. It’s almost unfair for me to keep it to myself! That’s exactly what I did when Rob & Justine send me over their beeeautiful wedding…and actually, beeeautiful is literally the only way I can describe what I saw accurately. Love love love…
The couple were married at Hillhouse â a quirky converted Barn that is used as an art retreat, which has the look and feel of a dolls house – in South Africa. “Rob and I met a photography gallery and almost instantly clicked,” Justine told me when I asked about the proposal. “I liked that he loved animals and the environment and he loved that I was edgy and confident (his words). We were engaged six months later. Rob proposed in a beautiful vintage Victorian Era locket, I opened it and he had written âWill you marry me?â in it.”
“In South Africa and especially Durban, there isnât a market for quirky, different weddings,” the bride continued. “People seem to stick to the basics. We were adamant that we wouldnât do that. It was hard to convince certain family members of our vision especially the âvegetarianâ bit. Â We knew that the only way we were going to get the wedding we wanted, was to physically source and make everything ourselves. Every Saturday morning we went to the local charity shop and cleared them out of teacups, plates and vases. Rob and I even co-designed our gorgeous wedding invites even though neither of us are graphic designers. Rob was as much a part of the design of the wedding as I was, so it wasnât a completely feminine wedding like some tend to be. Our venue wasnât a wedding venue but an art retreat, our caterers wernt wedding caterers but an Eco friendly restaurant and our photographer wasnât a wedding photographer. I think these elements brought such diversity and made our wedding, the absolute perfect day that it was. ”
“Our wedding was our art piece. Rob, being a designer and myself, loving design, we managed to create such a wonderful wedding day, something we are so proud of. Rob and I collected everything used at our wedding from charity stores. We chose every teacup, every plate, every vase, every book, every piece of cutlery. We chose each piece of material for our napkins, Robs mom sewed each one. Rob designed all the signage and I sewed and designed all the decor and we completely poured over every detail. Both being vegetarian, we decided to go that way and after the wedding, so many people commented saying it was ‘the best food, (not just wedding food) they have ever had.’ Rob hand made the portico that we got married under and the badminton net that provided hours of fun for our guests.”
“We wanted our wedding to be eco-friendly, to go with the theme of recycling, helping others, being kind to animals and the environment. When designing the wedding, we were going for the look of almost ‘a vintage attic with a modern edge.’ Our entire wedding was DIY as its always the little touches that make a wedding great. Rob made 12 signs for the road on the way up to wedding. It gets peoples attention straight away. I sewed about 50 felt hearts, stuffed them and put them on sticks. This brought little dashes of colour on the grass and people loved using them for photos. The hearts also matched my Vivienne Westwood shoes.  Rob made the badminton net structure and then I hung ribbons with little hearts on for the net. We put old vintage racquets in a trunk which added another great element. We hung the left over ribbons with hearts in the surrounding trees.”
Don’t you just adore it? Justine concluded with a great piece of advice for you guys too. Read and absorb it people! “A personal wedding is a good wedding, despite your budget, you can make your wedding beautiful as long as it true to yourselves.” Couldn’t have said it better myself!
(Be sure to check out their gorgeous video…and prepare to cry – it’s beautiful… after the ‘jump’) You can also see their engagement video here)
Gorgeous….
HUGE love and thanks to Rob & Justine for sharing their incredible wedding on the blog today. Extra special thanks to their photographer Tyrone for sending over the images.
The Gallery
Photography Credit: Tyrone Bradley
Videographer: True Romance Films
Venue:Â Hillhouse
Bride’s Dress: Custom made by Kathrin Kidger
Bride’s Shoes: Vivienne Westwood/Melissa
Bride’s Headpiece:Â Kathrin Kidger
Bride’s Jewellery: Vintage pieces
Groom’s Suit: Custom made
Groom’s Boutonniere: DIY (by the bride)
Cake: Corner CafĂ© â Eco friendly Restaurant and caterers
Music: DIY (friends)
Bridesmaid’s Dresses: Picked their own
Bridesmaid’s Jewellery: Genevieve Motley







Ahh, such happiness to see our wedding on here! Brings back so many wonderful memories. Thanks so much for featuring us, Rock n Roll bride was such a massive inspiration for us.
Muchos love xx
Great to see this up here. I photographed the photographers wedding not so long ago which was also featured here. Yaaaay for South African weddings!! Welldone to all involved. A visual feast!
EEEK! This is so so awesome!!!
Especially awesome since I’ll be getting married in SA in less than 5 weeks, and also planned things a bit different.
This had a true calming effect on me, and reminded me that that I should stick to my guns and do what WE want to do, thanks for that!!
Wow this is just amazing! the whole wedding looks stunning! I can’t pick out pone thing I like inparticular, I LOVE all of it! xxx
LOVE the video!! So cute!! Great photos too
OMG this has got to be my fave wedding you have ever posted!!! GORGEOUS in every way. no more words!!
Beautiful!!!
So beautiful!!!!
Amazing wedding! I love the vintage blue car and its made some gorgeous images!!
WOW. That’s all I can say.
Utterly beautiful!
I want to get married again now!
Really stoked to have been a part of your guys day and really psyched to see you two on here. But the real bonus came in having made some great friends. Wish you guys all the best in your adventure together. I’m sure the voyage is going to be amazing.
Great video Jim, should have had you behind the lens for our wedding instead of on my left
Wow, love the wedding, love the photography, love the video!!
Wow this is drop-dead stunning!! I’m floored! I think I’m going to delete every bookmark of wedding inspiration I’ve collected and just look at all the pretty in this post
their wedding has an awesome mix of rock’n roll and sweet and soft…i love the photography! the video was so touching…jeez…look at this rad memory this couple has to remember their day by!? “how f*cking cool were we?”
Ohhhhhh! I love it!!!!! The art retreat really struck a chord with me… what a fantastic place to have a wedding.
I adore the eclectic table decor! It’s all so lovely!!
Pretty, pretty!
this is lovely, nice to see SA weddings featured
Beautiful wedding and what stunning photos!
Kat ! stop posting video’s that make me cry, Ime a man I am not supposed to cry at these things, I loved everything about this wedding.
oh SO lovely!
So many pretty things…….
Have you ever featured a NZ wedding? I’m having trouble finding anything fun/pretty/cool/inspiring on weddings in New Zealand and I think that’s where we’re going to get married in Feb next year!
All the more reason to do things our own way, but I’m already worried about finding the perfect photographer….?
love everything about this blog x
Totally perfect wedding – love this ! Love Durban too and the photography is fabulous!
Please let me know where you got your Viv Westwood shoes? In Durban? WHich shop
<3 your pics!
Hey Megan,
I ordered them off ebay from the U.K ;(
What size are you?
Justine
A size 5 and DESPERATE to find a pair!
Megan
Hi Megan,
I now sell Melissa vivienne westwood, contact me if you are keen.
I love this!! Such a beautiful wedding !!
Where o where are those adorable bridesmaid dresses from?? adorable!!
Ah I love this !!!
What an inspiration! I think I might consider a wedding now. Congratulations, a work of art for sure.
Hello and congrats!! I LOVE your wedding, everything looks just perfect. I’m planning our wedding for late 2012 and heard about Hillhouse from friends and now luckily stumbled across this page of awesomeness! Justine would you recommend the venue? x
Definately, great venue and great owners x
Wow!!! beautiful wedding Jusstine! and the best photos for you to remember your special day.
Wishing you all the happiness in the world.
Enjoy
So glad to have seen this. Your wedding was beautiful. My daughter is getting married at Hillhouse in August, so now we know its going to be fabulous!